This week, as we light the third candle of our Advent wreath, we turn our attention to the profound concept of love. Scripture tells us that love is patient, love is kind, love your neighbors, and even love your enemies. Now, I don’t know about you, but some days, when resentment and anger are simmering, it can seem impossible to extend love to those who have wronged us.
However, the love that Scripture speaks of is different from our emotional understanding. It’s not the romantic love we feel for a partner or the affection we have for family and friends. The love we’re called to embody is a specific kind of love known as agape in Greek.
Unlike our single English word for love, Greek offers four distinct words, each with its own nuance. Agape is a verb, not a noun. It’s not an emotion or a feeling; it’s an action. It’s about doing love, not just feeling it.
By choosing to be kind, patient, understanding, caring, and helpful, we’re actively expressing love. We’re not waiting for a good mood or a warm feeling; we’re choosing to behave lovingly, regardless of our emotions.
When we light the candle of love, we’re not just lighting a candle; we’re illuminating the world we want to see. We’re putting our faith into action, stepping outside of our comfort zones to make a difference.
We love our neighbors by caring for them, providing for their needs, listening to them, and honoring their choices. After all, don’t we want our choices and decisions to be honored? When we extend this same respect to others, we’re actively demonstrating love.
So, as you embark on this week, I invite you to embody agape love. Experience the transformative power of loving behavior and watch as your world shifts and grows beyond your wildest dreams.
Namaste.